Assisted Suicide as a "Prophylactic" Against Future Suffering
The media repeatedly pound home the false meme that assisted suicide is only about people diagnosed with a terminal illness. True, some American activists make that argument. But the "terminal illness limitation" is unquestionably the minority view within the movement.
Case in point: On April 15, 2009, Ruth von Fuchs, a leader in the Canadian Right to Die Society told Canada AM (CTV) that she supports Betty Coumbias--the Canadian woman who is not sick, but who wants to travel to Switzerland with her terminally ill husband to commit assisted suicide. From the transcript (no link):
I am sorry, what kind of husband would support his wife throwing herself, figuratively speaking, on his cremation pyre? That question goes unasked. Instead, Von Fuchs sees assisted suicide as not just about ending actual suffering, but as a proper "prophylactic" against feared future suffering:RUTH VON FUCHS: Anyhow, the thing with Betty Coumbias I think will be an extension, because it will show there is no duty to live, that life is not an obligation, it's a right but not an obligation. It will also show, I think, that it's rational and sensible to take steps to avoid oncoming suffering or misery. Betty is virtually certain that if she had to live without George she would suffer from intractable depression.
[AM Canada Host Seamus ] O'REGAN: She's anticipating that she will be depressed from loneliness.
RUTH VON FUCHS: Yes...And people say she could be wrong, and I suppose that's true. But she's not a young woman and she's thought about this for a long time. It's possible that she is correct.
It's also possible that the tribunals in Switzerland will rule that some sort of wait-and-see policy is required. But then there would be a promise to her that if indeed she's right and is wretched without George, then at the end of a certain time--a month, for instance [Me: Grief doesn't end in a month!] she could receive assistance then.
O'REGAN: So, what she's trying to do is not only -- I mean, I guess there's a political element here, do you think? I mean, does she want to make a statement? Obviously, does she want to carry this through in a public way?
RUTH VON FUCHS: I think she's ahead of her time, in a way. So, she's trying to lead her society into questioning some of the old assumptions that life is a duty, that we must not anticipate, that we must start to suffer. But we don't take that attitude in other areas of life. We think it's very wise to do things like buckling up your seat belt to prevent being thrown from your car. Prophylactic measures are considered very sensible in many areas of life.
Labels: Assisted Suicide. Death on Demand. Prevention of Future Suffering. Ruth von Fuchs.


5 Comments:
Statistically, the average recovery time for losing a loved one is from 2 1/2 to 3 years. As Wesley points out-a month! You've got to be kidding me.
What's wrong with feeling pain? It doesn't last. Time changes everything.
Look, I admit I'm depressed about being unemployed. I grieved the loss of my job. It was fun, wonderful, the people were great, and for the first time, I *Loved* working. And I've lost so much losing that job. But time has changed and there are new possibilities.
That's *nothing* like the deep grief that overcomes someone at the loss of a loved one. But just because one love is gone doesn't mean the world is over. What about this woman's friends? Doesn't she have other relatives? Is it worth it to be so afraid of pain that she is willing to cause *them* hurt in an attempt to keep herself pain-free?
Imagine if a man has cancer, decides to commit suicide, and decides he wants to spare his wife and children the pain of losing him, so he shoots them. After all, they love him and why should they be made to suffer?
Strangely, we see murder/suicides as tragic, but we don't see this woman's decision as tragic. How screwed up is that?
I have to agree with TE Fine when he/she says "What is wrong with feeling pain?" Pain is a part of life...at times! Should we all seek "suicide" with every painful event that comes into our life? Instead..it can be viewed as as an opportunity....an opportunity to:
1. Grow...and learn more about yourself and life!
2. To share what you have learned with others.
3. To look for a new mission in life.
4. To help others going through pain.
I am sure there is MUCH more...
Life is what you make! How can you know joy without first knowing sorrow?
I would certainly question my husband's love for me...if he would me to follow him in death by commiting suicide! That is the heighth of selfishness on his part!
Jan -
I totally agree with you, that suicide on the part of a healthy spouse is selfish. "I refuse to live because I don't want to hurt, and nevermind what that does to other people in my life, so there, nyah!"
I'm a she. (curtsey)
Thanks for expanding on my statement. Your outline makes a lot of sense.
I'm not saying that pain shouldn't be managed in the physical sense, because if we have the resources to keep the body from hurting and help people live more productive lives, then by golly, we should!
Emotional pain is something that usually is resolved in time through spiritualty, or personal growth, or study, or any number of things.
If emotional pain becomes too hard for the individual to deal with, then by all means, the necessary medical intervention should be used to help the sufferer live life more fully.
But there's no need to take yourself out of the equation! I mean, come on, if you're dead, then you can't grow or learn or enjoy cats and flowers, or anything that you can do that will give life meaning. Life can't have meaning unless you're living it.
Well they are cowards, and cowardice and evil do go hand in hand.
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