Wednesday, April 09, 2008

Not the Twilight Zone: Or is It?

A few days ago I posted an entry here at SHS about a heart transplant recipient who fell in love with his donor's wife and ultimately committed suicide in the same manner as the donor. I also quoted the story claiming that there were some 70 cases of transplant recipients who had apparently exhibited personality traits of their donors post surgery.

Here's a similar but far more specific story, from a book published in 1997 by a woman named Claire Sylvia. Sylvia received the heart of an 18- 7ear-old man, and the following was excerpted in the Daily Mail:

Because I was the first person in the state to have such an operation, there was a lot of publicity, and two reporters came to the hospital to interview me. One asked: "Now that you've had this miracle, what do you want more than anything else?" "Actually," I replied, "I'm dying for a beer right now." I was mortified that I had given such a flippant answer, and also surprised. I didn't even like beer. But the craving I felt was specifically for the taste of beer. For some bizarre reason, I was convinced that nothing else in the world could quench my thirst.

That evening, an odd notion occurred to me: maybe the donor of my new organs, this young man from Maine, had been a beer drinker. Was it possible that my new heart had reached me with its own set of tastes and preferences? It was a fascinating idea. During those early days, I had no idea that I would look back on this curious comment as the first of many mysteries after the transplant.

Or that, in the months ahead, I would sometimes wonder who was choreographing changes in my preferences and personality. Was it me, or was it my heart?...

A month later, I left the hospital and moved into a medical halfway house a few miles away. Now that I could eat like a normal person, I found, bizarrely, I'd developed a sudden fondness for certain foods I hadn't liked before: Snickers bars, green peppers, Kentucky Fried Chicken takeaway. As time went on, a strange question crept into my mind. Although I hadn't thought much about my donor, I was acutely aware that I was living with a man's heart--and I wondered whether it was conceivable that this male heart might affect me sexually. Until the transplant, I had spent most of my adult life either in a relationship with a man or hoping to be in one. But after the operation, while I still felt attracted to men, I didn't feel that same need to have a boyfriend. I was freer and more independent than before--as if I had taken on a more masculine outlook.

Hype or proof of the deeper mysteries of life? You be the judge, but I vote hype.

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At April 09, 2008 , Blogger T E Fine said...

I don't really think it's hype so much as since a piece of his body is still alive, she might be picking up the signal that is "him" out there on the other side.

Alternately, you could say that since we have no idea where inside a body a person is - if I cut open Wesley, could I find the part of him that likes Italian food, or loves Mrs. Smokette, or enjoys art? Nope - we don't know where inside his brain those things are, because we don't know how consciousness arises from inert matter. But if everything down to light photons is conscious, then it would follow that his body part has some of his essence in it still, and she is getting vibes of him from his heart.

That doesn't mean she isn't herself anymore - she's perfectly in control over her body and she still has most of her own body, including her brain - so she is still who she always was. But she might be picking up a reflection of his life. No big - it's not something that should make everyone boggle. I do feel sorry for the one lady whose husbands both suicided, but I think that one should look over the financial records of both before raising eyebrows over the situation. Most of the time people suicide over money matters.

 
At April 09, 2008 , Blogger Foxfier said...

When I was in bootcamp, I "woke up" one night in the middle of the afternoon, during an inspection-- of male bootcampers.

I have glasses. I NEED glasses. But I couldn't see my glasses, I just saw everything clear as could be-- until it snapped to the middle of the night, and a very scared night-watch looking at me and getting ready to shine her flashlight into my eyes.

That berthing had been used for men; I found out later that the "uniforms" (PT gear-- ie, basically shorts and a T-shirt) were correct for a couple of years after the berthing was made. The only war movies I grew up watching starred John Wayne.

It only happened that once, and I've NEVER felt like that coming out of a dream.

Was it all in my mind, or did I "pick up" on something?

I really don't know.

But I do treasure how the light looked, and I swear if I find an old man with the face of any of those kids, I'll probably faint dead away....

 
At April 10, 2008 , Blogger Jan said...

I am with you Wesley! It is hype!
I think the essence of who we are and that includes our likes and dislikes are not bound up in a mere piece of flesh...albiet an important one for life.

 
At April 10, 2008 , Blogger Laura(southernxyl) said...

I don't think it rises to the level of proof of anything.

But organ transplants have only been around for a few decades. Do we really know ALL there is to know about them? One would think that the donated organ would just become part of the body it was transplanted into. I've read more than one account of this kind of thing, though, and I'm not prepared to take my "one would think" and tell people that they are not experiencing what they say they are experiencing.

I was amused to learn, when I took a microbiology class a few years ago, that when I say "my body" I'm including all kinds of little organisms that don't think they're me at all and actually have their own agenda: my resident bacteria, of course, and any fungi that live inside my skin cells. I shouldn't say "I", I should say "we". I guess my point here is that reality may a bit more complex than what we are accustomed to thinking.

Maybe this all falls under the heading of "there are more things in heaven and Earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy".

 
At April 11, 2008 , Blogger Cindy Willmot said...

I usually just lurk around here and find most articles quite informative. In regards to this "personality change" I would like to share some personal experience. I was a lab technician in a hospital for over 10 years. (I'm now a SAHM). A very good friend of mine, a nurse, had a heart condition called Mitrovalve Prolapse. It was very severe and required surgery to repair. The surgery was very delicate and took an unusually long time--10 hrs. My friend came through the surgery just fine, but in the weeks that followed we noticed something very strange. Her entire personality changed. She didn't like the same foods or music. Heck, she didn't even like her friends anymore. She was very different. After she divorced her husband, moved away and changed careers, I did some research. It seems the anesthesia, not the organ replacement/repair, is the culprit. Maybe you should check it out. I asked a few of the surgeons I knew and they reported they had known several patients, after really long hours under anesthesia, to undergo personality changes. So, yes, personality change does happen, but I don't really think body parts hold our "soul". Makes for good story telling though.

 
At April 11, 2008 , Blogger Wesley J. Smith said...

Marie: That's interesting. Thanks for the post.

 

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